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The real test of a lending partner shows up after the deal closes, not before. When I moved into private…
Why speed and specificity in declining a deal matter as much as the capital itself
Sponsors remember two things about a lender: how fast they moved and whether their reasoning held up. A slow pass wastes weeks a sponsor could have spent elsewhere. A vague pass wastes something more valuable, the chance to actually improve the deal before it goes to market again.
Private credit has grown into a market where speed is now a stated differentiator, not a nice-to-have. Direct lending assets under management have climbed past $1.7 trillion globally, and sponsors increasingly select capital partners based on process discipline as much as pricing.1 In a market this crowded, the sponsors who get real feedback fast tend to remember who gave it to them.
Consider a landscaping platform that was recovering from sector-wide headwinds but hadn’t yet built a track record to support the recovery. The right answer wasn’t a soft no or a maybe. It was a direct explanation that a longer runway of improved financial performance would produce a better underwrite for every stakeholder involved, including the sponsor’s own equity return.
That deal hasn’t returned yet. But the sponsor got a clear rationale instead of a form rejection, and clear rationale is what allows a sponsor to plan a timeline instead of guessing at one. Lower middle market deals often carry exactly this kind of story, a business inflecting before the numbers have caught up.2 The lenders who can articulate why the numbers need more time, rather than just declining, give sponsors something they can act on.
The more interesting cases are the ones where a pass changes the deal itself. An independent sponsor pursuing a buy-and-build strategy in the rail maintenance space ran into a structural problem: the base business had heavy customer concentration and unpredictable buying patterns. Rather than a generic decline, the feedback was specific: pairing the platform with a second business already under LOI would diversify the revenue base and materially improve the credit profile.
The sponsor agreed and went out and found that second platform. The combined business ended up larger, with meaningfully better credit metrics, and the sponsor unlocked a stronger go-forward investment thesis than the one they started with. Customer concentration remains one of the more common reasons lower middle market credits get flagged in underwriting, and sponsors who address it before syndication tend to see better terms across the board.3 A no delivered with reasoning didn’t kill that deal. It restructured it into something financeable.
Ask sponsors what timeline they’ve come to expect for a pass or a pursue decision, and most will say a week feels normal. Some lenders take longer, especially when a deal sits in committee limbo without anyone willing to own the answer. A 48-hour standard for feedback, even preliminary feedback, changes how a sponsor plans their process and who they call first on the next deal.
This isn’t about rushing diligence. It’s about separating the parts of a decision that require deep work from the parts that don’t. Customer concentration, thin financial history, and structural leverage concerns are usually visible in the first data room pull, not the fortieth. Lenders who can identify disqualifying or improvable issues early free up sponsor bandwidth for the deals that actually have a path forward.
The responses sponsors give when they receive specific, actionable feedback tend to follow a pattern. “Thanks for the thoughtful feedback.” “Helpful and thoughtful feedback.” “Thanks for helping us further our diligence.” These aren’t just polite closings, they’re signals that the feedback got used.
Sponsors often take that reasoning back into their own models to re-test leverage assumptions or re-examine structure. In some cases, the feedback shows up again later in equity valuation discussions, because a credit-side concern about customer concentration or cash flow durability is frequently an equity-side concern too. A lender’s rationale for passing can end up doing double duty as free diligence for the sponsor’s own investment committee.
None of this changes the fact that a pass is still a pass. The deal doesn’t get done, the capital doesn’t get deployed, and the relationship has to be built on something other than a closed transaction. What a specific, fast, well-reasoned no provides is a foundation for the next conversation, and in a market where the same sponsors and lenders cross paths repeatedly across deal cycles, that foundation tends to matter more than any single transaction.4
The information contained herein is for informational purposes only and should not be construed as investment advice. The views expressed are those of the author as of the date of publication and are subject to change without notice. Past performance is not indicative of future results.
Preqin, Global Private Debt Report, 2024, https://www.preqin.com
Pitchbook, US PE Middle Market Report, 2024, https://pitchbook.com
S&P Global Market Intelligence, Middle Market Credit Trends, 2023, https://www.spglobal.com
Refinitiv, Lower Middle Market Lending Review, 2024, https://www.refinitiv.com